Prayerfulness – An Advent Message
I can recall so well the magical feeling of a Christmas morning walk in an overgrown field behind our house when I was back home on break from college. This was wild land as an array of weeds and small trees competed with one another as they took root on the empty lot.
I had outgrown the yearning for presents that characterized Christmases of my childhood. I was enjoying the seven of us together. I don’t remember what gifts I received. I do remember feeling good about the morning of unwrapping gifts in a calmer way than my four siblings and I could have managed when we were younger. The morning felt just right, with nothing else needed. Then, my dad brought out one last, not-particularly large, gift-wrapped box. He seemed so pleased. I had no idea what it could be. Inside, I found the unexpected gift of a Nikon camera. Until then, my forays into photography had been with my dad’s old Yashica. This was a Nikon of my own.
It was still early enough that when I went out after breakfast, the fog that enshrouded that morning had yet to break. I took my gift for a walk to see what I could see. The dew-covered weeds overtaking the lot seemed magical to me. Quiet stillness is what I remember. No noise except the occasional bird sounds. The photos I took that morning would never make it to a nature calendar, but they were the beginnings of me gaining a better sense of capturing my perspective on the world through a lens. Photography encourages me to pay close attention to what I am seeing and then attend to how I frame what interests me so that I can share my perspective with others.
Over the next few years, I started working for Georgia Southern’s student newspaper, then the yearbook, the Public Relations Department and the Statesboro Herald. I would graduate and take a job as a newspaper photographer first in Warner Robins and later in Rome, Georgia. I honed my craft in newspaper work so that shutter speed and aperture and the rules of composition became second nature. I still enjoy that part of photography, the technical side. Then, when I had an assignment to get a photograph of a given subject, like the office manager whose passion was playing for the local symphony, I could use that craft to get a technically good picture for the paper. But the art of photography, which continues to draw me in, comes in discovering the world in surprising ways through attentiveness. This way of seeing the world is as much about feeling as seeing. How does this feel and how do I convey that feeling?
I now understand how the two ways I practice photography–the first with a set plan of what I need to document or show, the second going out and discovering what captivates me–are an apt metaphor for two ways of being with God–in saying our prayers and being prayerful.
This summer while on sabbatical, I read Brother David Steindl Rast’s book Gratefulness, the Heart of Prayer: An Approach to Life in Fullness In it, Brother David writes, “It is not prayers that count, but prayerfulness.” In unpacking this for myself, I could see anew something I had already experienced, that we need both of these: the prayers of the church and a prayerful attentiveness to life.
In finding my way into the Episcopal Church, I was drawn by Word and Sacrament in the liturgy where scripture is taken seriously as the Word of God, as are the outward signs of the inward and spiritual grace we find in the sacraments. I found myself pulled into the Anglican way of connecting myself more fully to Christ through threefold practices found in the Book of Common Prayer of weekly Communion, Daily Office, and private devotions. Decades ago, I added daily prayer using the offices of Morning and Evening Prayer to my gathering weekly with others for the Holy Eucharist, and then I added other private devotions, including other forms of prayer, as well as confession. The discipline in this simple way of living offers a life of prayer that shapes one over time. As the water of a creek flowing over stones smooths off the rock’s rough edges, so this ongoing pattern of prayer shapes my soul. But these prayers, as vitally important as they are, do not encapsulate all of my worship of God, the Holy Trinity. These disciplines nourish me even as they open up a prayerful way of living that encompasses my whole life.
Brother David put it this way in his book Gratefulness, “It happens that people who are in the habit of saying prayers at certain set times have their moments of genuine prayer precisely at times when they are not saying prayers. In fact, they may not even recognize their most prayerful moments as prayer. Others who never say formal prayers are nourished by moments of deep prayerfulness. Yet, they would be surprised to learn that they are praying at all.”
Here, he is getting at something people who identify as spiritual, but not religious, get precisely right: we can experience God as fully in nature as we do in the worship of the church. We get a powerful sense of connection to the divine in the beauty of a sunrise, a star-filled night sky, a waterfall, or through the little world glimpsed inside drops of dew hanging from weeds that died back for winter in a field on a Christmas morning. These moments of wonder point to a deeper reality that binds the world together in ways we could otherwise miss. Those of us who do identify as religious discover that the God we glimpse in creation is known more fully in the specific revelation of scripture, and most fully in the person of Jesus of Nazareth.
A prayerful way of engaging with creation will reveal that there is infinitely more to life than we might first be able to perceive. This is where the life of prayer comes in. That simple way of being that is at the heart of Anglican spirituality is shaped by weekly Eucharists, where we encounter God in Word and Sacrament in the midst of a given group of people; the daily offices where structured prayers and scripture reading together with intercessions for ourselves and others further hones our spiritual imaginations; and also through other devotions including confession through which we acknowledge the ways we have fallen short. All of these are Means of Grace that the Holy Spirit uses to enlighten the eyes of our hearts. Then we begin to see God in more and more places until we realize that the God who transcends all creation is also working in and through all this fallen world, including you and me.
Our prayers feed our prayerfulness; they give us the eyes to see and know God through scripture, through time of structured prayer, through the sacraments, and all of these point us to God the Holy Trinity, who is beyond all and in all. This allows us not just to see and know the creator of the cosmos in a stunning sunrise, which can be soul-stirring, but to also know the presence of the living God in the emergency room and in Hospice Care, and in the difficult days we face in our lives.
That Christmas morning with my new Nikon lit a spark of wonder in my soul. Photography continues to encourage me to really see what I am seeing and to pay attention to the world around me. The life of prayer does this work by giving us eyes to see God in ways we would otherwise miss.
As we journey toward Christmas, through this season of Advent, which is a time for preparing not just for a babe being born in Bethlehem, but also for Jesus’ return in glory, may the Lord bless you and keep you. The Lord make the light of his face shine upon you and be gracious to you. The Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.
Amen.

This consecration of space is an ancient practice. Our Old Testament lesson describes King Solomon consecrating the Temple in Jerusalem. Before that, Moses had consecrated the Tent of Meeting that served as the focal point of worship for the people of Israel. In each case, they offered sacrifices to God as they prayed for the ground and the tent and temple to be hallowed by the presence of the Spirit of God. This way of setting aside space for holy purpose has continued through the millennia.
I hope that this dedication will also inspire us as a Diocese of Georgia to stand against the type of injustice that Deaconess Alexander faced through her entire ministry. Her years as a Deaconess from 1907 to her death in 1947 coincide exactly with the dates that our Diocese held segregated conventions with a separate, but not equal, meeting for black Episcopalians. Anna had to work hard to earn extra money, including through cooking meals for our summer camp that was on St. Simons Island in her day. While Camp Reese had an Anna Alexander Cabin it was described in a 1945 article in The Living Church as “a servants’ house built by the young people and named in honor of Deaconess Alexander.”
In 2025, we will also offer a 1Book1Diocese read for Easter through Pentecost of Holy Mysteries: Encountering the Risen Jesus by Frank and Victoria Logue. As with their Advent through Epiphany devotional
The 1Book1Diocese read for Lent 2025 will be Rowan Williams’ deeply wise book Passions of the Soul. In this brief text the former Archbishop of Canterbury tells how self-awareness about our instincts and emotions can offer practical assistance in diagnosing what is binding us to unhelpful and potentially destructive patterns of thinking. In the process, Williams shows how these thoughts like pride or anger are not necessarily wrong in themselves if we attend to these thoughts properly. He states, “For the Eastern Christian writers, ‘passion’ is the whole realm of instinct, reaction, coping mechanisms, and this is the level at which complications arise. We cannot live without these things if we are to be human at all; yet unless we understand and in some degree transfigure them, we are trapped in something less than human.”
We have received a number of inquiries from outside of the Diocese about where to send donations for Disaster relief. The first way to do this is to donate directly to the Bishop’s Fund for Disaster Relief. This money will go directly to helping our parishes and Honey Creek in meeting their deductibles as they repair damages to their properties, which is a needed type of aid that is not covered by other grants. Once those initial costs are covered, any leftover donated funds will be used for additional assistance as needed.






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Sean said, “And finally, what about our idolatry of structures and practices that exclude and diminish our witness? We have to get it together. That’s going to mean laying some things down.” By the end of the day, an announcement went out to the church that our Presiding Bishop-Elect 
The gift nestled in our propers for this commencement is clarity that while we long to see lives changed by the Good News of Jesus, that 

This Lent, the Diocese of Georgia offers a study using a book The Good Life written by the directors of a more than eight-decade-long study of what makes for a fulfilling life. The Harvard Study of Human Development offers a window into lives of meaning and purpose through the data they have collected. The book also looks at what is gleaned from similar studies around the world. While the book itself does not make connections to our faith in Jesus, the discussion guide does.
The delegates to the 2023 diocesan convention unanimously voted to name Deaconess Alexander as the Patron Saint of the Diocese. Deaconess Anna Ellison Butler Alexander (1865-1947) has been recognized as a saint by the Diocese of Georgia since 1998 and by the General Convention of The Episcopal Church since 2018, with her feast day celebrated on September 24.
After meeting Dave at college, falling in love and marrying, the two tried to find a church home only to discover that they were miserable sinners as they had their feet metaphorically dangled over the flames of hell. While raising kids, they took a break from church. That is when Shayna’s old softball coach’s pleas to go to church with him broke through. Dale Jones persistent invitation finally reached the point where she could not keep turning him down. Shayna says of coming into this beautiful church, “I remember that first visit so well. Yes, we were a little overwhelmed with keeping up with the prayer book, and the kneeling and standing. But, [she added] we felt the love, the genuine spirit of the people, the closeness of God. I truly felt the spirit of Jesus.”
This was faith he learned in the cradle. Born at home, in the little Central Florida settlement of Clay Sink, the entire population were his family by blood and marriage. He was at birth added to the cradle roll of Clay Sink Baptist Church. While his family would move around the Lakeland area, church was a constant for his parents, for Johnny, and his four brothers and three sisters. He was a steady presence in Sunday School, sang in the youth choir, and took part in all the activities for youth. He made his public confession of faith at the church in Kathleen, Florida, where four generations of his family are buried.
Yet this fails to capture the liveliness of a woman of great depth. With a playful spirit and a great sense of humor, you just never knew what she was going to say. Of George’s call to ministry coming after he had settled well into the family’s furniture business, she said, “We were convinced it was a call from God, because we would have never thought of it.”
The Lambeth Conference—as an introvert, I both looked forward to and dreaded attending. From meeting with other spouses of Bishops (via Zoom instead of in-person because of Covid), I learned that we would be broken into small groups of 8-10 with other spouses from around the globe. Which meant, I was sure, that I would have to hear the simple phrase that accelerates the hearts of introverts: Let’s go around and introduce ourselves.
Working with the app also helped me to acquaint myself with some of the spouses attending Lambeth. So, the first time I was asked to introduce myself, I was already familiar with a number of spouses. (photo of Caroline Welby)
We would then break up into our small group Bible studies with the Bishops crossing the street to gather at the Parkwood Apartments in small groups and the spouses hurrying over to Venue 2 to gather at our round tables. Here we would look at the verses we had just heard about and speak to them in what became the favorite phrase at the Lambeth Conference: in my context. Because the gathered bishops and spouses were from more than 160 countries from around the world, the context for a spouse in South Sudan was different than the context for a spouse in Pakistan, which was different for a spouse in Malaysia, which was different from a spouse in America . . .
In every congregation of the Diocese of Georgia, I know people who disagree with each other profoundly on politics (and sports which is even more difficult) who are grateful to worship together and miss one another if someone is not in church. I value this so much. We differ in many ways, but we all know that we need Jesus and we need each other. I have seen this writ large in gathering with more than 650 bishops from 165 countries at the Lambeth Conference.
When we gathered here, Archbishop Welby said, “You are the shepherds of your flock as I am the shepherd of the flock that I serve. Let us not act in a way that disgraces our witness. Speak frankly, but in love.”
Last evening, in a bit of serendipity, I came back to the dorm from the Eucharist walking, holding hands, and talking with the Archbishop of South Sudan, on a lovely late evening in Kent with Canterbury Cathedral at our backs and a return home in front of us. Two bishops from very different contexts with different views of a Jesus shaped life, but with the most important thing in common: we are both beloved children of God, united by one Lord, one faith, one baptism.
I am at the Lambeth Conference of Bishops of the Anglican Communion with more than 650 bishops and more than 460 spouses from 165 countries. Our time together includes a deep dive into the First Letter of Peter led by the Archbishop of Canterbury, Justin Welby. This week Bishop Hosam Rafa Naoum, the Bishop of Jerusalem and the Middle East, who I met at his church in 2018 before either of us were elected as bishops, told me then and repeated again to a gathering this week that people go to the Holy Land to see the stones, but need to meet the living stones, the Christians of the Holy Land. Now here at Canterbury Cathedral, an ancient site of pilgrimage, I have enjoyed this historic place, but am being transformed by the living stones, the bishops and spouses from around the world.
I am finding this time so humbling. The problems we face in Central and South Georgia are put into perspective by dedicated followers of Jesus who love Word and Sacrament as we do and face daily challenges we can not imagine. This is the 15th Lambeth Conference since the first in 1867. While the provinces of the Anglican Communion, such as our Episcopal Church, are independent, we are also deeply interdependent and while this conference has no authority over us, the moral authority over time makes a difference.
As the Bishops of the Anglican Communion meet together for the first time since 2008, Bishop Frank and Victoria Logue are representing the Diocese of Georgia at the historic meeting. First convened by the Archbishop of Canterbury in 1867, these conferences are an essential part of establishing and maintaining connections with Anglicans around the world. With the theme of ‘God’s Church for God’s World – walking, listening and witnessing together,’ the conference will explore what it means for the Anglican Communion to be responsive to the needs of a 21st Century world.
Victoria is on the leadership team for the “House of Spouse” as the spouses of the House of Bishops are known. She will take part in a variety of events at Lambeth that will include any of the spouses of the Episcopal Church who will be present for the conference as well as spouses from around the Communion. The spouse gatherings are an important part of the meeting.
The announced goal of the conference is to resource, inspire, and encourage Bishops in their local ministries; supporting their pastoral and leadership roles in church life and mission as we all follow Jesus. In an unexpected move, the Archbishop of Canterbury sent out a 58-page document to affirm as a body. The text is problematic as it asks for clear stands together where there are deeply held differences. Most notably, it initially asked those in attendance to reaffirm Lambeth resolution I.10, from 1998, which is against extending all of the sacraments to all baptized Christians. The concerns many bishops raised, including Bishop Logue, led to a revision, which itself may be the subject of further debate. This late change is shifting the character of the meeting even as bishops are checking in on site for the conference. Please hold the Logues in prayer as they worship and discern alongside their colleagues from around the world a faithful way to continue to walk together given these differences, while honoring the dignity of all God’s children.
In the spring of 2020, Presiding Bishop Michael Curry saw how the pandemic led to history was repeating itself when planning was underway to consecrate a handful of bishops with only the minimal people present as required by canons. He was reminded of the Scottish Episcopal Church’s cathedral in Aberdeen where a small gathering consecrated Samuel Seabury as the first American Bishop in November 1784. Bishop Curry referred to the liturgies in pandemic as “Aberdeen Consecrations.” When Bishop Logue became the first person made a bishop with a congregation largely online, the image was even clearer as Communications Manager Liz Williams’ photo of the moment with just three bishops laying on hands looked more like a stained glass window in Aberdeen than any consecration in memory.
To honor this history and further renew the connection, Bishop Logue, together with Bishop Deon Johnson of Missouri, Bishop Glenda Curry of Alabama, and Bishop Craig Loya of Minnesota will travel this week to Scotland for a series of visits in the Diocese of Aberdeen and Orkney. Bishop Logue will preach at St. Andrew’s in Alford this coming Sunday as a part of this visit.
Nothing sounded like Good News to me until I looked at the Gospel passage from below, well below the waters of the Sea of Galilee, seeing a net descending. Okay, I know, a story of nets bursting with fish may not sound like Good News for the fish, but there is something deeper going on here. I stumbled into grace and love when I realized what Jesus did not say.
Yet, what we do have as followers of Jesus is a relationship with the God who is working to redeem our world one wild and precious life at a time. What we have is the knowledge that everything we now see and experience is not all there is. The creator of the cosmos knows you by name, has always loved you, will never give up on you, and wants better for you. We have the hope in the God who goes to the depths of human existence to love, truly love, those who see themselves as lost, unfit, and sinful. God is always offering a chance for a clean slate, a fresh start, and will never leave you to the chaos that threatens to consume you. God will send a net.
This is not to say that Susan was a stranger to church. Not by a long shot. She was baptized at Christ Episcopal Church in Exeter, New Hampshire about two months after her birth. She stood up for her place in the church at an early age too when the Rector did not understand her wanting to be a shepherd instead of an angel as boys were shepherds and girls were angels. But she was a budding thespian and Susan knew Shepherds get to play fear, which is a way better role. She did prevail and soon after began to acolyte and in a few years was confirmed.
Susan listened to God telling her to go to church. She showed up only to find as she would later say, “I hard every single prayer, reading, and hymn, and the entire package was an unmistakable message: “You are loved. You always have been loved. And I will always love you.”
We all know the love of Jesus, the Good Shepherd who leaves the 99 sheep to go after the one that is lost. In our own families, in our workplaces, and among our friends, you and I are already deployed where God needs us to be there for people we already know to play the role that Mother Lee Shafer played in Susan’s life of being the sounding board for that feral cat stage of trying to trust God and God’s church. And in this effort, the real work is that of the Holy Spirit. I see this in how the Spirit was acting in Susan’s life to draw her back in to the Body of Christ. I have experienced this in my own life. And I have seen it in others who God has put in my path, where the Holy Spirit is already with them. We just have to be a part of affirming that message is real: You are loved. You always have been loved. And God will always love you.